*Putting young kids into competitions makes their future strange. They feel like they need all of this stuff to be beautiful, they don’t understand the beauty within.
*Parents, if you feel the need to enter your children into beauty pageants, do it because the children are excited about it, and also make sure they know that they are beautiful without all of the accessories.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Saturday, November 7, 2009
If I was in her shoes...
Put yourself in her shoes…start off by stating, “If I was in her shoes, I would…”
If I was in her shoes, I would listen to my parents, because if you don’t life could be much worse than what it is now. I would assume that the life I was living was a normal little girl’s life.
I am very excited for the competition this year. My pageant coach comes to my house twice a week to help me with my walking, my pose, my answers to questions etc. The last pageant I was in it started out fun, until I had to sit patiently waiting for my hair and make-up to be done, I just want to play, I don’t want to sit still and do this! I started whining, but whining turned into crying; mom was mad. She didn’t want my make-up to be ruined. She bribed me, which worked and than I stopped crying. I felt like a Barbie doll, three things happening at once, my hair, nails and make-up. Mom had set aside all of my outfits for each of the judging. Time to smile, whether or not I wanted to, because it was pageant and judging time. There were so many girls, how could I ever win, but mom told me that I will win, because I am the best. Once the pageant was over, I didn’t win, but I got third place, mom was mad. Mom said that we have to practice more and work a lot harder for the next one.
Now as a fifteen year old, I feel out of place in high school. I feel like I have to look like I did when I was younger because it makes me feel pretty, without it I would be ugly. People look at me funny in high school, but I think they look funny; they need to put on make-up, and do their hair so they can be perfect like me. Because if you don’t have all of the dress up accessories, you will not be as beautiful as someone else who does.
If I was in her shoes, I would listen to my parents, because if you don’t life could be much worse than what it is now. I would assume that the life I was living was a normal little girl’s life.
I am very excited for the competition this year. My pageant coach comes to my house twice a week to help me with my walking, my pose, my answers to questions etc. The last pageant I was in it started out fun, until I had to sit patiently waiting for my hair and make-up to be done, I just want to play, I don’t want to sit still and do this! I started whining, but whining turned into crying; mom was mad. She didn’t want my make-up to be ruined. She bribed me, which worked and than I stopped crying. I felt like a Barbie doll, three things happening at once, my hair, nails and make-up. Mom had set aside all of my outfits for each of the judging. Time to smile, whether or not I wanted to, because it was pageant and judging time. There were so many girls, how could I ever win, but mom told me that I will win, because I am the best. Once the pageant was over, I didn’t win, but I got third place, mom was mad. Mom said that we have to practice more and work a lot harder for the next one.
Now as a fifteen year old, I feel out of place in high school. I feel like I have to look like I did when I was younger because it makes me feel pretty, without it I would be ugly. People look at me funny in high school, but I think they look funny; they need to put on make-up, and do their hair so they can be perfect like me. Because if you don’t have all of the dress up accessories, you will not be as beautiful as someone else who does.
Friday, October 30, 2009
Expenses Of A Beauty Queen
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Should parents enter their infant(s) into beauty queen pageants?
No, I think this is beyond ridiculous. Little kids (infants) deserve to have a life of a kid, not a grown up. Why start their adulthood early? They look like grown woman, with tiny little bodies. Full head of stylized hair with a caked on full face of makeup, learning how to stand properly as well as walk correctly, should be no concern of an infant. Rather than wondering and hoping if they'll be the next "beauty Queen" in the next upcoming pageant, they should be worrying about how to read and write, play with toys etc. I can not understand why parents would ruin their child's childhood by putting them through pageants and hoping to win, if not, the kid is sad and feels like it's the end of the world. Kid should never have to feel like this at such a young age! Stealing away their childhood will only bring them pain, when all they can remember when their older is all the flashing lights, and the questions being asked by the judges, rather than which boy kissed you on the cheek, or the tree fort that dad helped you build in the back yard. I feel like the parents take over their child's life by making them dress/act/look like adults and overall I feel like the children are learning the wrong message. They are learning that all they have to do in life is look pretty and everything will be handed to them. Learning this a such a young age will keep the child's mind stubborn to learn anything outside of the box, aka the pageant world.
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